5 Ways To Start A Writing Habit — Especially If You’ve Already Tried (And Failed)

A few days ago, my dad asked me how I’ve been able to write so consistently for the past 2 years and never “run out” of ideas.

I wanted to say something profound to him about inspiration, or intuition or “feeling the flow.”

I wanted to tell him that it was all about finding my spirit animal and creating brilliant masterpieces.

But the reality is much grittier: It’s hard work. Every single day.

Nobody wants to hear that, but it’s the truth.

One of the most frequently asked questions I get is, “Yo Daniel! How do I get my blog noticed?”

My response is always, “Write more.”

Lots of people in the online writing space will disagree with me on this — Derek Halpern praises the motto of writing less and promoting more. I feel that, and I understand the value of massive, leveraged promotion.

But here’s the thing that most people never talk about: For your work to get attention, shares and traffic…it needs to be EPIC.

And epic takes time to develop.

You need to find your voice in order to start hitting home runs — and you only find your voice through hours and hours of beating on your craft.

Think about it this way: The internet is the world’s biggest library.

Who is easier to find in the library — Margaret Mitchell with her single masterpiece Gone With The Wind or Mark Twain with his entire collection of works (some masterpieces, and others “just for fun”)?

Twain, all day, erry day.

So sorry, sweetie. You need to write more. A LOT more.

But writing sucks. It’s hard and can be extremely boring at times — even when you’re working on something you enjoy.

What’s more, it’s especially hard to do it CONSISTENTLY.

I want to help you be more consistent with your writing — so today, I’d like to introduce you to my friend Eric Mac.

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Eric Mac

Eric is one of my closest friends — and he’s the most prolific writer I know.

He puts my piddly (is that a real word) 500 words a day to shame by cranking out over 15,000 per week.

And he’s on track to finish his 3rd book this year. No big deal, right?

It’s this type of consistency and dedicated focus that’s turned him into an incredible writer — and he shares much of that process at his site WriteKu.

Today, I’m happy to welcome him to Rich20Something — and I’m excited for him to show us 5 habits he uses to program the writing habit deeply into his daily routine.

Be sure to read through to the end and pick up his free guide on how to write compelling stories.

Take it away, Eric!

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5 habits to get you writing and finishing that story.

1. Have a consistent habit, an action, a thought, a location, a drink (matcha tea anyone?) that sets your mind in the mode of the writing. It can be as simple as sitting down to write with a favorite pillow at your back.

2. Write in a location where you will not be constantly interrupted or where you are required to take your mind off writing.

3. Use music, and try a variety to ease you into the flow. It also helps shut out the rest of the world for a time.

4. Let others know, in no uncertain terms, that this is your time to write—even if it isn’t making money at the moment.  Writing is one of those things that, if you don’t keep doing it, you won’t get good enough to be a best seller. Chicken and the egg thing.

5. Don’t put it off. Doing it tomorrow means you’ve lost a 1000 words or more to your story. If you only write 300, then that’s 300 lost to the ether. And you lose the flow and continuity of your story and characters.

Now I’ll go into a little more detail about the list above.

1.) Creating a consistent habit, action or thought…

I settle in for writing, pillows at my back, feet stretched out on the bed, laptop on my lap. Exercise, it’s all an exercise.

A repetitive exercise.

At this point I’m a little familiar with the muscles involved in the process of this exercise, and day after day practice allows me to do this with some endurance.

One is that I have some consistent habits surrounding the process of writing. My mind is put in the mode that I get to go to another world that no one else can see, and it is a place where I can do absolutely anything—and I mean anything—I want. It’s somewhat like the little kid who goes under the blanket when he or she is 5 or 6 and closes off the rest of the world to a place of immense safety.

If a thin blanky can do that for me, then I can still use the feeling I had from back then to help my writing process, to immerse myself in that “my world alone” experience.

And I don’t care if you know about my blanky.

In martial arts different salutes or bow-ins prior to entering the dojo or studio. This is a sign of respect to those within, but it is mostly a way of using a physical movement to put your mind into a more serious mode. A more disciplined mode.

For me, sitting comfortably is the start as I am usually in one place for a long time, anywhere from 30 minutes to nearly 4 hours, should I be fortunate to get that amount of time.

I like to have a pillow at my back, at least 2 of them, so that I get my lumbar support out of the way, but I have been known to hunker down in a car seat while someone else drives over bumpy roads to get the writing quota done.

2.) Finding the perfect location…

 I have a few writing locations that work well for me, but anywhere I can be where I don’t have to worry about my surroundings will do.

The bedroom with the door closed and locked is one.

A chair at the Oxford Exchange, a place to write while enjoying tea, is another.

The dining room table has worked for me.

Sitting in my car under a shade tree also works.

Most of these are places where I have zero distraction, or the distractions help in one way or another.

I am a people watcher; I have written many character studies and enjoy the flow of humanity around me at times. I also come from a big family and have 8 brothers and sisters. There was always that background noise, that, more often than not, was not intrusive. Merely noise. The comfortable noise of family.

There are times, though, where silence is necessary, and I go through every effort to make that happen or put on headphones and drown out the rest.

3.) Using music to ease into the flow

Different novels or short stories seem to favor specific music, for me. I know right now that if I play 1977 from Anita Tijoux, I will be transported into the mood to write my unfinished novel, AJ. Everything about that song speaks to, and of, my main character in that book. And when I hear it, I want to write that character. She’s waiting for me, after all.

A lot of music from the movie Inception went into my novel SHADE, a fantasy story that deals with multiple timelines and probabilities. The emotional undercurrent of the music meshed well with the way I imagined and expressed the characters. It helped ease the complexity of the story.

I don’t know why certain songs work with the flow of specific stories, but they do. They find their own level, so to speak.

Overall, music can shut off the external and allow the internal free reign. Music helps soothe or invigorate. Try a variety of music and see which songs, or genres, ease you into the story, or stories, you’re writing.

4.) Dealing with other people

This one is an important habit to develop. Either you become sneaky and slip off somewhere where no one knows what you are doing and then write to your heart’s content, or you let others know that the time from x to x is your time for undisturbed writing.

You are only helping others by being creatively expressive. When you get your story quota out for the day, you are a better person for everyone. You will be more relaxed and feeling good about your accomplishment. It makes it easier to deal with the rest of life.

Good intentions aside, one of the worst things anyone can say to you, or for you to think yourself, is, “Are you making any money at it?”

Novels can’t get published if they aren’t written. Period. Even those people who write on spec still have to write the thing to get paid, or they lose the advance.

You’ve got to finish a novel to get paid for a novel. It doesn’t work any other way. You won’t know if it’ll make any money unless you have completed it and shopped it around.

Writing is a serious thing. It involves a lot of time and effort. Good writing, even more.

But nothing gets written unless you decide it’s worth the effort. Don’t let someone else decide that for you—ever. They can keep themselves down all they want, but don’t ever let them keep you away from the work you’re meant to do.

Decide that your writing expression has value. Decide the effort itself is valuable. Let those around you know how important it is by doing the work of writing day after day until your novels are finished.

5.) Don’t put it off

Don’t put it off. As I’ve said in my other blogs, I never let 2 days go by without writing—ever. This is my specific routine and works well for me, but I ask that you try it until the completion of one writing project.

I write every day. Sometimes I have to write double the next day because of some life happening getting in the way.

Saturdays are tough days for me to write my novel, and I often have to make Sunday a double day.

But the point is, don’t put it off. Have a plan that if you can’t write one day, then make up extra on the next. And keep to that plan. Don’t fall into the habit of letting it go to the following day; this is not a good habit.

When you’re consistent day in and day out, you stay connected with the continuity of your story and characters. It flows. You may dream about them, or think of them while doing your day job. They are present more often than not, and it makes writing about them easier.

Make a target for your writing in number of words, or time. I started my serious novel writing years ago with 300 words a day. This quickly changed to 500, and now I do a minimum of 1000 words a day with 2 part-time jobs and an occasional 3rd part-time job. I also write a couple of blogs and a newsletter. And somewhere in there I get a poem or two down a week. This is a full schedule, as I’m sure many of you have, and it just shows that if I can do it, so can you.

If I let a day go by without writing, then 1000 extra words are waiting for me the next day. Without fail. Some days I write a lot more, but always meet my minimum. And if I write extra on day one, it doesn’t excuse me from writing my 1000 the next day. It just means I got extra mileage in that effort to the finish.

Just think of how many words, how many stories, could have been written already if you would’ve just stayed the course.

Stay the course. You’ll be so happy you did.

Eric Mac focuses on painting with words. His mantra—“Don’t tell me. Show me.”—helps his readers enrich their writing and encourages them to express their individuality. As an online mentor he is able to guide you past your personal obstacles toward more meaningful creative expression and to trust that what you want to express to the world is important. You can find more of his work at WriteKu.

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Grab Eric’s guide on How to Write a Compelling Story here.

What did you think?

Would you like to start a writing habit? If so, what’s been your biggest obstacle? Let us know in the comments. Both Eric and I are available to help 🙂

 

Daniel DiPiazza
@Rich20Something

Daniel is the founder and CEO of Rich20Something. A millennial business mastermind, he has successfully started three consecutive freelance businesses and scaled them to over $100K in revenue with zero startup capital. His work is regularly featured in Time Magazine, Fortune, Entrepreneur, Business Insider, Fox News, and Yahoo! Business. His debut book, Rich20Something, publishes on May 2, 2017.

  • carsonwcraig

    Awesome article. I can definitely relate to point #3. Having a music playlist to write to can help get the juices flowing and keep you in the mood. 

    I use Youtube to create several different playlists, each for a different mood. If I am writing my novel, I have a playlist for tragic scenes, action scenes, inspirational scenes, etc.

    Having a place to write is another must have for me. If not, I tend to get distracted by the television. Now, I just go out on the patio to make sure I don’t have electronic devices to keep me from my writing.

    Thanks for the great post.

  • Rich20Something

    carsonwcraig Great insights! Thanks for jumping in 🙂 Just curious, what type of writing are you working on?

  • Thanks for sharing your thoughts and methods! I have heard so many people say write every day, and I feel better when I do, but I feel like it’s like exercising or any other discipline. I have to start smaller and work my way up again, since I have let my routine go. So my current goal is write 1-2 times/wk.

  • Eric_Mac

    ShellyNajjar You’re welcome. Small is the way to start, but let me take you one step further. You say 1-2 times per week. Are these scheduled? Meaning that on Monday 2 pm I will write no matter what, and Friday 8pm I will write no matter what? If not, I suggest you set a specific day that you will make your writing day(s), and then you can fudge the time a little bit (at first). But set your days and keep them. We want to go from general to specific. Regulated inspiration. You set the day and tell the world that no matter what, you will get your goals met on that day. Make someone hold you accountable if you need that. I want you sharing your truth consistently. We need you to do that.

  • Thank you Eric and Daniel, this blog post was exactly what I needed today 🙂

    Every day for the past 3 weeks, I have been writing in my diary – experiences, actions, conversations, and learnings. I started this as attempt to get myself used to the idea of writing every day. Some days I only write 1 or 2 sentences, but at least that is something.

    But this morning I woke up and realized I had forgotten to write last night. This left me a little confused as to how to salvage the situation. Thanks to your 5th point, I know that I can do something where I double up the next day if I didn’t write much or at all the day before. 

    I think the next step for me would be to develop habits to write every day at a specific time (perhaps 30 minutes) in the morning and build it up to the point where I do more and more. I want to expand to writing on blog topics in addition to the journal writing. Also, I have not experimented with setting a word count every day. Eric, do you write by hand or type?

  • I personally find if I have writing I need to get done or just work in general the best thing to do is sit at my desk in my “office” room, not on the couch, not in bed but in that room, put my headphones in and go to focusatwill.com

    Even if I’m in that room and struggling nothing helps more than focusatwill, it’s like my brain instantly goes for the next 60 mins it’s go time and I can just stay focussed, ignore Facebook, ignore Skype and get results.
    If you’re sceptical or haven’t tried it – I STRONGLY suggest it, you’ve got nothing to lose right?

  • Eric_Mac

    @Mimi Zheng It’s great that you’re writing daily, and a sentence or two matters. The process of listening to your voice, intuiting the need for the expression and then writing it down, reinforces that connection. This is an important part of intuitive writing and is another blog I wrote scheduled for release on writeku.com in another week or so. Intuitive writing will help you get past sticking points in storytelling. 

    I write by hand, voice dictate, and type, whatever happens to be available at the time. Mostly, when I’m not near my laptop, I jot my thoughts down in my trusty iPhone. I love the fact that, using Notes, my work is automatically uploaded to my other computers without my having to do anything else. I’m sure other phone makers must provide the same functionally, and I heartily recommend its use. Nothing worse than having bits of dialog or story fall to the ether when you can’t remember where you put that piece of paper.

    On writku.com I wrote a blog on 30s, which details how you can set up little chucks of regulated time in your day for writing. I think you’ll find that helpful, if you haven’t read it already.

    Do you find yourself writing better at specific times during the day? Or that the need to do so is strongest at a particular time?

  • Eric_Mac

    –  I just want people to know, generally speaking, Daniel is awesome. Period. I now return you to your regularly scheduled program 🙂

  • carsonwcraig

    Rich20Something I’m currently editing my Steampunk novel and I’m writing the sequel. Apart from fiction writing, I run website to help fiction authors reach their audience. Thanks for asking.

  • carsonwcraig

    Eric_Mac Strangely enough, yes, I’ve started listening to that music recently. It plays quite often on my Pandora playlist. I usually tune in to one of my Pandora stations if my Youtube lists start to feel old and I need some new tracks.

  • Rich20Something

    Eric_Mac Generally speaking, thanks, Eric 🙂

  • practicalcivilization

    Great job Eric. I think my most challenging obstacle is figuring out how to write when I’m uninspired. I’ve read conflicting views on this. Some suggest to write everyday no matter if you’re inspired or not. Some say you shouldn’t write if it looks/reads like crap. Any thoughts on this?

  • Eric_Mac

    practicalcivilization Thank you. My new blog on intuitive writing comes out Monday and I demonstrate how this process allows for creative flow whenever you need. The week after I will post part 2 and go into intuitive writing in more detail. In addition I will give you an exercise to try with an accompanying audio visualization to help move you past sticking points just like you describe. 

    What kind of writing are you doing? This will help me give you a better answer.

  • Your point #3 resonated with me.
    When I put on my Boroque Classical mix, all of a sudden I feel like Shakespeare 🙂
    Funny how that happens.

  • practicalcivilization

    Eric_Mac practicalcivilization I mostly do pieces on personal improvement, discussions about popular culture, and ways to be frugal. Every once in a while I try to weave fictional characters into these articles to (hopefully) make the points more memorable.

  • practicalcivilization

    Eric_Mac Awesome! Thanks for the advice Eric. I’ve really hit a wall with my blog writing recently. This will be a great help in getting over.

  • Eric_Mac That’s very interesting that you write by voice dictation. I have not ever thought of that!

    Typically, I write at night to remember key points of the day. Similar to you, I sometimes take notes on my iPhone during the day. In addition to the diary, I am thinking about carving 30 minutes in the morning dedicated to blog post writing.

    I signed up for your guide and look forward to your posts 🙂

  • Terra_Stardust

    Thanks

    I am starting my business blog and I have never considered myself to be a writer.  Thanks Daniel for introducing me to Eric Mac’s content!

    My biggest obstacle is my own confidence in my writing mechanics.  Right now, it seems like my stuff is a rambly mess and I have a ton of content that I need to continually go back and edit.

  • Eric_Mac

    Terra_Stardust Rich20Something Eric_Mac Could you clarify what you mean by writing mechanics as it relates to your work? I will be posting an interview with my editor in the coming weeks regarding the editing process, she has some great insights in common errors in the writer-editor workflow experience. 

    I also know a great deal about focus and how it relates to large projects and might be able to give you some ideas you would find helpful.

  • Eric_Mac

    BenAustinBlog It really is something powerful. The human internal engine spurred to new pathways of expression by the simple (and not so simple) plinking of keys or the sliding of taught horsehair over strings.

  • Eric_Mac BenAustinBlog I remember reading somewhere that Classical, specifically Boroque puts your brain into an Alpha state. This is a state of relaxed awareness, creativity and Optimal learning. 

    Information to the brain comes in unfiltered and causes brain waves of a frequency 13-39 hrz.

    Long story short… It makes me more creative while writing 🙂

  • Terra_Stardust

    Eric_Mac Terra_Stardust Rich20Something
    Eric, what I mean by writing mechanics is the ability to write to get a clear concise message across.  I have not been published before and my writing style bounces back and forth between informative essay style to informative conversational style.  Honestly it is more about my confidence in being a writer and learning grammar and other rules, than anything else.

    I would welcome any tips that you have!

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