It’s not enough to simply desire an outcome.
You also must also be willing to go through the process to get to the outcome.
The outcome is certain in our minds. We know what the results should look like, more or less.
The process is quite uncertain. Especially if we’ve never done this before.
This scares us. Sometimes, it stops us in our tracks.
If we aren’t willing to take the actions (and the inherent risk) that come with pursuing an outcome, then we shouldn’t expect the outcome to magically appear.